Loving is important but to love someone we must start by loving ourselves, loving and valuing ourselves is fundamental to be able to love another person, to be good with himself.
The answer in NO, for a relationship to work, you must feel safe, not allow the other person to make you feel less and less, when we know what we are worth and we are good with our personality, we should not care what others think, we should not allow others to impose on us things that make us unhappy, people who want to be involved in our lives should accept us as we are, it does not mean that we are not open to hearing any kind of opinion that person has for us but always and when it respects what we are and does not force us to change to satisfy ourselves.
Loving yourself fills us with satisfaction and peace, when we begin to value ourselves is where others begin to value you, we should not pretend to be who we are not to make anyone happy even if that person matters to us, if we do this the unhappy we will be We, when someone loves you, accept you and support you just for the certainty that you are happy.
