I think a lot of the problems today with monogamy are actually due to society and forcing us all into the idea of buying our own houses.

If we all just had rooms in a munch larger building, perhaps like apartments with a communal courtyard, would we be as stressed? Sure, if we had to share a kitchen, that might be annoying, but we'd probably get used to it. On the plus side, you wouldn't have to spend as much time cleaning up. You'd probably have people that helped keep things cleaned and kept things up.

I think we'll likely spend years going forward trying to find out what exactly works and tons of people will find different lifestyles that work and don't work for them.

Maybe polyamory works for one person, just like monogamy actually does work for others. Maybe there are other social setups that will work for others that may have or have not caught on quite yet.

But, I think if people are going to go into a serious monogamous relationship, they probably need to figure out how to sort out all their problems before they become fights.

After so long I've come to realize fights are usually caused by shit that's never addressed. Usually because of people that are literally impossible to talk to. I do not suggest every marrying someone that is difficult to address issues with.