Building dating products is one thing, but real user behavior always strips the theory down to what people actually tolerate and what makes them leave. Someone close to me tried a few relationship-focused apps recently and kept saying the same thing: the platform only starts revealing itself after the first few days, not on day one. That feels true for almost every app in this space. When people begin comparing real impressions, ourtime reviews becomes the more useful stop because opinions from regular users usually expose whether the platform feels comfortable, awkward, repetitive, or surprisingly decent once the early curiosity disappears. Design matters, sure, but lived experience usually wins.