It pays to be a little multi-faceted and to engage with life. Sitting around like a lump of bone-filled flesh isn't my idea of living. Very few people really know me, even in real life, and I think if I was to open up some more a few people would be interested, surprised or shocked...Depending on who they were I guess. I've lived a pretty full life Mary, never shied away from new things and have tried, failed and succeeded at many things. That's what life is about. I feel sorry for those who don't do so, but it's a choice I guess.