I wonder how people do it to be honest, like your uncle. How do they juggle it all is beyond comprehension.

I had a rogue business partner like that, didn't know it until too late and I lost seven figures when he did the dirty on me. It wasn't a good time in life, but I learned a lot of lessons.

There's much to be said for the ability to find value in experiences rather than things. We do that and enjoy life fine.