People just want to be heard, and when you touch sensitive topics, they can get upset. In my group, one day, a woman told a member who was waiting to get married at 45, if he would do it, and he said he was fine in a free relationship. She asked him to let the girl go, not to make her waste her time. It was uncomfortable, but we need uncomfortable people in our lives, really uncomfortable ones that make us reflect on what life is and what should be done.

That's the value of another human who makes you uncomfortable. Tomorrow, you'll be grateful for it, just like Prophet Nathan told King David to stop stealing Uriah's wife, to the point of killing him to steal his wife.

Speaking little is wise; a man is master of what he keeps silent about and a slave to what he says.