Damn

Damn, you said it, but I disagree... because it's true they'll spend on themselves, but a good chunk will still be left... stuck in titanic battles, and lawyers will win big from lawsuits and family disputes... there's a lot to gain there.

Being in the middle is complicated... taking care of parents and kids simultaneously drains the pockets. Thank goodness it's doable, but sometimes it pushes many straight into poverty. I hope to not be in that situation... but it's almost achieved since you're carrying burdens on top and below simultaneously, and the expenses are pretty strong