I've never been a fan of dating apps as I am quite an introvert person and I heard way too many scary situations that took place after people met IRL after chatting for a bit on dating apps.
However, I can relate to how hard it is to find a relationship to build with another person and work in the same direction. Many people don't understand that they have to work full time for a relationship just as they work on a job. It's not enough to be there for each other if they both don't go in the same direction and make compromises for the well-being of the relationship. Having a relationship work well requires sacrifices, compromises and lots of understanding along with love, loyalty and the other basics everyone is aware of..
RE: Why love heals and hurts us in the same time?