Hello my friend,
Thank you for the nice intellectual write up here and for your compliment on my writing regarding the topic.

When another person's stress is transferred to you, can't it also mean that this reawakens your own stress that you thought you had overcome?

Indeed, this does seem more like a transference based stress, where perhaps both people are creating a victimization of one another, while maintaining a victim role.

if both personalities are unstable (at least in the moment of emergence an instability reveals itself). You mentioned, you could call it a "phenomena" instead of a "disorder" and I would prefer this term, for its a more neutral one. Why not call it "Present Moment Stress Phenomena - PMSP"? :D (Oh, and lol to the pms! HaHa)

I couldn't seem to get around the PMS thing hahaha. Yes it does seem more like a temporary problem that could be classified more as a phenomenon instead of a disorder.

Exaggeratedly one could say that all victims are perpetrators, because if they are not ready to transform their experienced victimhood as such (to re-evaluate, to reframe, to make a virtue out of sin), they hurt others who have nothing to oppose them in the moment of stress (they walk without the above realization). This then makes the formerly victim into perpetrators and they do/may not know it.

It seems more often than not that people will be a victim in their own mind, and this gives credence to the idea that humans are wildly selfish with their thinking. I think it's a tough topic to debate, because in almost any given scenario, the basis of some selfish thought process can be found. So it's easy to see how in an scenario where I feel like a victim, the other could see me as the perpetrator, and of course with me, I feel as though I'm being victimized by the other person.

As the experienced cannot be put back in the box, the trauma cannot be "un-experienced," but everything is and stays in the field. This means that the potentials are lying around and are like sleeping somethings.

So true, and I think with a lot of traumas we experience, the only way to heal from it is to just zombie it as the best solution and move on. If I can distance myself from people who cause me a mental trauma, then good. If not, it becomes a personal maintenance of just managing the associated symptoms to having no choice in the matter.

Thanks again my friend, and sorry for these slow responses here. 🤗