Hi @calhen,
From the Human oppressor perspective, it makes total sense to :
I think you are right for the male perspective.
I have experiment a little with this to the point I can, if I want, not ejaculate during intercourse.
But I never commit a lot on this matter. (maybe I should, for the energetic work)
From some readings I had, It seems the woman way is different.
They should learn how to master and control their periods.
The end goal being choosing when they want to ovulate.
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