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I wish we could understand that people don't think like one, and they don't have to... maybe, we would be happier. And I say this, because it often happens that we expect others to react as we would, we want reactions, reflections and perspectives that come from very different places. Although the other would like to please us and think as we could not. The reason is simple, those people did not have our same parents, experiences and feelings; which configure our particular way of seeing the world. To relationships, to life, to work, everywhere we go complete. To fragment ourselves so as not to make us uncomfortable, to divide ourselves so as to be everywhere *is impossible*. We need limits if we think we should be divided, fragmented. It should be the most natural thing in the world, to be oneself, and yet it is the most difficult thing for us, because along the way there is the fear of rejection, of not fitting in, of disappointing. And that is exactly where we are going to get into a high-risk sport, as it is to *be authentic and responsible* to look straight ahead, what it has cost us to be who we really are. What I am sure of is that we are not prisoners of our genes. We are slaves of our habits, our words, emotions and our way of living, this speaks to our biology every day and we will never have peace with a resentful one. Who believes that the origin of problems is that he has what he lacks, he will never have peace... above all, because even receiving what he thinks he needs, he will not find satisfaction. Because that premise that is the origin of resentment always leads to deep frustration. Human beings will never be 100% satisfied, there is always something left to solve or attend to. But when we convince ourselves that our problems are born of the other, and that the other has something more, it leaves us with a bitter *in mouth* and unconstructive feeling. There may be injustices, however, life constantly leads us to understand that finding what we are looking for, satisfaction, happiness or whatever is our responsibility. It is not something that is satisfied by taking away from another, but by finding a personal path. That is why, far from complaining, I choose responsibility... And it is that there is not only the "little finger" on the hand, therefore, the differences are fundamental between all the fingers of our hand, that's how we human beings are. Viktor Frankl says it well...When a person cannot find a deep meaning to his life, he is distracted by pleasure. The moment we understand this, we stop looking for an explanation to everything to work with what we have at hand, I think that way, we will definitely be happier. What do you think? I read you. Thanks for reading me. Janitze 🦋

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