I just want to be left in peace and not be abused and bullied any more, that it is all.

I agree with that.
I hope you can settle your differences with Az.

When I see you in the list I will remove the flags, but honestly, they are dust and can be ignored.

Until there is a large enough group organized to overcome the 'bad' whales there is little recourse to their whims.
Perhaps you can interest people in organizing to overcome this power dynamic.
The minimum is to get the newbs to not dump.
When newbs power up those with the most hive get less from the pool.