Sometimes we get too carried away by life that we begin to get too familiar with ourselves, as bad as this is it is very common and life can be alot to handle some times so it is important to remind yourself of sometimes every time you can.
Give yourself some credit. Stop believing you’ve lived your best days already.
Quit
being negative and pessimistic towards yourself. You should be your own
cheerleader. Even if you’re going through very uncomfortable situations, whether
you've come from the least in your family's clan, or you're not where you're
supposed to be, or you've made terrible mistakes, you should believe that this
phase is only temporary.
I see several people speak and believe the worse of themselves,even on
social media, they are broke, and they believe that’s all they would ever be. They’re low
on cash or going through a difficult time and they think that’s all that life has to
offer them.
They’re genuinely begging for money and they think that’s all they
would ever and continue to do. Ask them how they’re doing and they go lamenting
how life has been unfair to them, how they don’t think they can get off their debts,
how situations have always become unfavourable, how bad luck has been
following them since birth, how good things happens to everyone else except
them. I could go on and on...
It’s okay to share your problems, but if I were to ask you to what you think of yourself in few years from now, what do you see? Do you see yourself getting out of debts, getting married to your dream partner? Buying your own house? Meeting good people? Do you see yourself achieving your dreams? Or you’ve already believed nothing good can come out of you? You've accepted the lie that this is all you'll ever be?
If there’s one thing you can never take from me, is my ability and positive attitude towards life. I have never believed that this is all I am or ever going to be. Even when I achieve one milestone, I’m believing the best of myself, I’m looking on to greater things to achieve. I know I haven't lived my best days yet.
While I was working in Nigeria and earning relatively fair, I never believed that’s all on earth for me. I kept trusting that one day I’d relocate and work in a developed country despite the several rejections and discouragements I faced. Whenever I'm asked where I see myself in few years, I'd mention that I see myself in *** country, working and more.
I saw a beautiful life ahead of me.
It’s no wonder things fell exactly in place for me.
I think this is why many people stay stuck in bad relationships ( and bad jobs too).
They think all that they could ever get is the worse end of the stick, so breaking
away from a terrible relationship, one they know isn’t the best for them, becomes a
difficult task to do. How do you let go when you don’t think the next person (or
next job) would be better anyways?
Stop putting your faith in your fears.
There’s so much good to experience in life. So much good and even better is
waiting for you. There are good men and women in your future. There are breaks
waiting for you to get, achievements waiting for you take on. There are awards in
your tomorrow. Amazing friends waiting for you to meet. There are countries
waiting for you to explore. There are good things in your future.
There’s a good life
waiting for you. Your present circumstance shouldn't be the reason you should
think less of yourself. There's so much beauty and power in your future.
My question for you is this:
Are you believing the worse out of your life, believing you’ve already lived your best
days or believing that your best days are still ahead of you?
Thanks for stopping by my blog ☺🥰
