You can't really control much of it...
It happens naturally
Most of us, might claim they control their lives completely, but I am sure that's not really true... at least on it's full strict extent. Life has its meaning (for humans) the very natural reason it manifests itself... randomly, unpredictable, surprising, impacting, diverging, scrutinizing the reality you though to be guaranteed.
For that same reasons, it's amazing. It might also be painful though... or crazy fun! It's mostly up to you... in fact.
When you forget it's best thing you have
Usually turns into hell... embracing it should never be out of your scope. Taking care of how or the way you can be/are happy is essential for human beings. They need to feel, react, contradict, refute, love, get curious, adapt...
Some might need even more that just that.
When pitfalls are essential?
Every time you need to evolve, are stuck or need a little push. And I mean, pitfalls can be from a little disappoint to a natural disaster!
Humans love "change"... and that usually creates "adrenaline", which can kill but... it's so AWESOME! Right?
We are not very logical... like robots. We defy everything because we are complex, and Human!
The most hurtful situation, is when many can identify the situations where you all acknowledge the need to experience that moment, but all of you deny the intention.
Being weak...
Is part of us as well, and usually drive us to make mistakes and increase our volatility to opinions... We might even feel attracted to that new look, legs, eyes, body, mustache, clothes, etc... but we don't always understand or logically take for granted the consequences of the actions we conduct.
That's by definition, being week (for me). And I might or might not ever be able to fail NOT being... But, for me its acknowledged as being something normal, and needed to be included on my daily life. Also drives some good share of adrenaline if you are interested. 🤩
What's yourFuture
THis is probably the most important bit...
There is only so much that could pump you to continue living... but among the most of it, there will ones you are able to plan and execute. These will be key! For you mostly, but also for your dears, your followers and the indirect people that don't even know about you (yet).
LIfe iS sO ShOrT
Go for it... live that thing up, stay alive and bring someone with you.