My guy let's call him Brian we used to be the first person everybody called when they needed help.
If your car broke down called brian if your rent was due and you were short call brian if
you need money to sort out something urgently you have to call him I don't think he was the richest guy in the circle no but he was just doing well enough to be useful to people.
Then boom all of a suddenly things changed and he lost a major source of income two businesses fell off and within few months he went to vana for being the one who helped everyone to the one who needed help.
The first time he borrowed money from his friend i sent it immediately the second time he was asked when we would pay it back and by the third time the conversation has changed completely it was now bro you need to figure out this out that time brian understood that nobody was obligated to keep giving him one but what hurt him was how his own people like his homies started treating him outside those conversations.
Friends who used to call him very every weekend suddenly had plans whenever he reached out one guy helped pay his rent the previous he started ignoring his message another would pick his call but he could hear the irritation in his voice before Brian would even finish explaining why he called.