Follow the below three great actions of goodness 🔸

❝ 🔴 (1) Sayyidina Ali رضي الله عنه said (the first principle), “The best is suqoot, keep silent.” Then, whatever happens you don’t have problems. Like this one, Muhammad Khayr, if you beat him up he doesn’t care, but it is very hard to get him to smile. So don’t talk, zip it! From whom you are going to have problems if you don't answer back?

🔴 (2) The second step is as-sima`, “to listen to what people are saying.” If you like it or not, you listen. If they backbite or spread rumors, you listen and keep quite. The third step is to observe what is going around (among the people). Like chess players, it takes them hours and hours to move one stone, and I am surprised how long they stay, sometimes for hours to move one stone, and they are considering all possibilities.

🔴 (3) And then the next step is al-harakah, “to move.” Then your movement is straightforward; it is not going to be left or right.

We are coming here for many, many years and all teachings of Grandshaykh and Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim al-Haqqani go into one ocean, the ocean of humbleness and humility. That is adab, and the highest adab is that of the Prophet (s), as Allah mentioned in Holy Qur'an:

وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلى خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ

wa innaka la ala khuluqinazheem

You are of the most exalted character. (al-Qalam, 68:4)

قُلْ إِنَّمَا أَنَا بَشَرٌ مِّثْلُكُمْ يُوحَى إِلَيَّ أَنَّمَا إِلَهُكُمْ إِلَهٌ وَاحِدٌ فَمَن كَانَ يَرْجُو لِقَاء رَبِّهِ فَلْيَعْمَلْ عَمَلًا صَالِحًا وَلَا يُشْرِكْ بِعِبَادَةِ رَبِّهِ أَحَدًا❞

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