A long time ago, I read something that said, if the problem has a solution, why worry, and if the problem has no solution, why worry? And it's so true, we gain nothing by worrying too much, only making ourselves sick, and of that I have no doubt. Last year at this time, stress was ruining my life. Now I try to take a different approach to things. As long as we have our health, we can keep going, and things will work themselves out in time. I'm not saying we should leave things up to fate, but we need to reduce our stress a little. It's killing us.