I QUIT THINKING EVERYTHING IS GOING TO WORK OUT ON ITS OWN.
We learn great lessons in our journey through life.
As infants, we are dependent on our parent
As children, we are still dependent on our parent/ Guardian
As adolescents, we are still dependent on our parents/guardians.
From age 20 we are fully responsible for all we do, our parents come in to support but the majority of all we do is 90% of ourselves.
At age 20 in the university, it became explicit that am responsible for all I do. I now take decisions on my own, Not all issues I consult my parent on how I go on
with my activities in school, and I was fully responsible for my actions. But with a positive mindset that I must come back home with good grades to my parent that sent me to school.
ACADEMICALLY
My parents are not in school with me to provide a tutor when my performance is bad I have to sort it out myself and Quit thinking everything is going to work out on its own, thereby making sure I attend the lecture, take notes in class, interact with my classmate and take extra time to read my books. I set my mind on making good grades to be qualified in my field of study.
RELIGION
As Christians, we pray to God and we believe that he answers our prayer it's tempting to think that it's all going to work out in the end, but the truth is that you have to make it work
A. Quit thinking everything is going to work out on its own "Man's desire and wants doesn'fall down from heaven"
B. You have to make it work after you have prayed. Work hard towards achieving your desires
HEALTH
Stay in good health, clean your environment, eat healthy, keep your body clean, and when you are sick go to the hospital.
WORKPLACE
I don't expect my boss to notice when am due for a promotion, my hard work speaks for itself. I don't expect my colleagues to stop giving me the harder part of the work if am always willing to do it. I don't think people will stop insulting me if I always allow them.
Everything is not going to magically work out on its own; I have to be proactive and take responsibility for myself.
REASONS BEHIND MY QUITTING
MATURITY: Development takes place as we grow and our thinking also grows and matures to a sense of taking responsibility. I want to be a good example to my younger sibling so I quit thinking everything is going to work out on its own.
FAILURE: No one want to fail in life. when you don't work hard for it and you think everything is going to work out by itself and put food on your table, money in your bank account and pay the bills then you are not thinking right and you are preparing your way to failure.
RELIGION: A lot of Christians believe only in miracles without work and they expect everything to be ok. In as much as I believe in miracles, I pray and I also work hard towards achieving my result. Not thinking everything is going to work out on its own.
IT AFFECTED ME POSITIVELY
