Everyone has one or two lessons he or she has learned through the year, because everyday we meet with different people, with different attitude or behaviors.
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Well I can't say I haven't learned anything through the year, I learn a lot this year but I have one experience that I couldn't forget about. A friend of mine has a plan to build a house and she met me which I gave her cancel that I thought would have been of help to her.
Which sounds good but to carry this plan to the end required some persons, where I made the mistakes is the person that I choose to run this project, was the wrong decision to choose a friend who I thought would be the right person for the project.
Not knowing that is the greatest mistake of my life that makes me feel betrayed by a friend, what I did, was that I picked this guy to produce this block for the house project, then I decided to be part of the work in order to reduce the cost of what she will spend for the project, this person I picked for the work told me to allow him to make the price, which I told him this person is not, that she had money for this project but she is trusting God for his mercy.
I decided to let him be, not knowing that she gave him money for feeding and I gave him food everyday till he finished the work, he turn and used me for his business telling me that he doesn't do anything that he can't gain from it.
For so many days I was stunned because of what he told me, I thought I know him I never knew that he has changed.
What I learned
- I came to understand that change is constant, men can change because of money or power.
- Men are selfish, the want everything to be in there position, so what ever I do in handling someone property I should make sure I give my time to It.
If I can't do it's myself then I can't help you, in doing that he has temper with my relationship with her, what this means is if I don't know how to do it correctly then I can't recommend anyone forget about it.
I have learned not to trust everyone until they proof themselves otherwise.
Conclusions
Never you put your trust on anyone because human can fail you, so you won't have any heart break, I actually love this contest.
It's a privilege to be part of this contest, I want to take out time to send my shout out to hive learners for this great opportunity.
Thanks for your time
@flamethrow