Keeping each how maintaining

There are many things that God shows us from things that we meet in life from love, sorrow, knowing, separation, hurt, missing, failure and kebahagaian from all that things we begin to learn to remember that every grief must have likes before and after, then how maintaining happiness, keeping each other from losing, loving each other so as not to hurt each other, tightening the closeness so that there is no separation and understand that the most important in our life that is thinking that failure is not from the end of life.
Many things fail in khdupan, but believe me Allah has not mengijabahkan all our efforts because God knows what is best for us, God gives us what we need not what we want, especially when failing God wants to mnjdikan we org who sincerely and patiently when our efforts fail and we can not get it all and make the failure of a valuable lesson so as not to happen again km