I love how you choice to make decisions yourself and don't let people decide for you. When you fail, you know you did it yourself and it will help in learning fast from the mistakes, and also help you be more careful and wise in other decisions you make. But if someone decides for you, and it failed, you won't have the time to learn from the lesson or it will be late, because you will be filled with pains and anger first, before any other thing.
Happiness really play a good role in everybody's life. I call it a medicine we don't have to buy🥰🥰, it free for those who wants it.