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Hi my lovely hivers,
How are we and the weekend? Trust we are bubbling and doing great. This week ends with a good consideration as per the theme which requires one's response. Kudos to the management and all the participants.

I want to first and foremost Concord to the statement coined in the question that we have differences in background and our make up.
There's always one thing that differentiates an individual which brings out the unique characteristics of such personality.
There's one thing that I don't do that others do. I know my readers are expectant to hear what that one thing could be.
Hmmm one thing I don't do but others do is talking too much.
I like being quiet and somehow reserved especially when it comes to the affairs that doesn't concern me.

This attribute began since my days in primary school. It became apparent during our last year in primary where my classmate had to confront me boldly. I really appreciate his courage. He has observed me for couple of years then but couldn't hold at the last lap of our primary school.
He called my name and said please why are you quiet when others are talking?
Why is it that you don't easily give input when others have gist? Why are you reserved even when we wanted you not be?
Immediately he poured his mind, I lack a good starting point to express myself but I had to just start from somewhere.

I clearly told him I can't explain it vividly but permit to round up to just be God. I just realised that my thoughts patterns differs from others and in an attempt to convince them to my way of reasoning may end in misunderstanding and broken relationship therefore I prefer peace to reign, I'll choose to be quiet however I do talk only when I have facts and genuine statements to make.

This lifestyle didn't stop at primary school level but continue till date. Hmmm as I drop this chat, what I have resolved is that I won't be another person rather I'll be myself. I don't like copying someone but to be the original.
Talking too much has not pay off for me but might be relevant to others. If I talk too much I used to feel headache and unnecessary body pain hence I prefer to hold my peace and stay calm. This attribute has remained in me till date.

lessons

Being reserved or calm doesn't make me the best but is just my peculiarity nature.
The fact that I don't like talking too much doesn't mean that talking too much is a crime. I think some people that talks too much have been able to Monitise their own and today wrought wonders.
I have saved myself a lot of trouble concerning issues by keeping quiet. Had it been I talk too hmmm I would have fuelled lots of unresolved crisis.
I have realised my true identity which I don't have to force myself to be like others even though they may expect me to talk anyhow. We are different and so I am therefore know your own.
I don't look down on people that don't behave the way I do because of the uniqueness of God's factors in every human being. I enlarged my heart to accommodate the varied perception of people's thoughts and character.