Friends,
How are you all? I extend my best wishes to all the members of this community. .
Friends, there are some challenges in everyone's life. Which we have to deal with. I have faced many such challenges in my life. My life is a challenging life. Friends, today I will share some of my challenging life with you.
Some pictures of me and my family
Both my parents were away from me. The reason was that my father went abroad in search of livelihood and my mother was angry with my father and went to my grandfather's house. I liked my grandfather's house very much so I stayed at my grandfather's house. There were many ups and downs. Anyway what I will say now is the events of 2002. In 2002 I passed the metric. After the results came out, I was admitted to the college. The first day of college I only did classes. My father has just come to Bangladesh from abroad. There was no shortage in my studies. Dad suddenly decided to marry me. I couldn't get out of the marriage even after explaining a lot to my father. Eventually I had to agree and I got married.
The story centers on life after marriage. I was studying then and got married. Some money was needed. But I had no way of earning. I used to tell my father to take money. Dad used to say that there is no need to study anymore. You start a new business. How do I leave school and do business. I know nothing about business. I was totally ignorant about the business. Even then I started the first business of my life in pursuit of a livelihood. And the business was the old paper business. I used to supply the old papers with a paper mill. To do old business, you have to buy old paper from some shopkeepers, load all the paper in a truck and match the paper.
I do business on some days like this. Suddenly a man comes to me and says I am a contractor. I find old papers in many places. Tell that contractor, I'll arrange for you old paper. You will match those papers with paper. He would give me old paper for a while and I would take old paper from him. Business was going well with him for some time. He used to take money from me. I would rent a truck and take it to the place where he would load the truck and give me old papers. So I took 10 to 15 trucks of old paper from him. My new business I don鈥檛 understand anything of the business. One day he took one lakh rupees from me and asked me to give him old paper. Has given me paper for quite some time. So I was not afraid to give him money. After giving him the money he takes the money and says you will come the next day and take the old paper. The next day I see that he is no more. The house he was in is locked. Switch off his phone. I can't find any trace of him. I go there to give him the paper. I tell them. They let me know that the contract we had with him expired. Now the new contractor has arrived.
I have my hands on my whole head. What do I do now? Taking money from the father of the new family. As soon as I told my father, my father got angry and kicked me out of the house and told me to have a separate family. Nothing will happen to you. I suffer a lot after that. At that time I ate one meal. I have walked a long way due to lack of money. Didn't let me understand my troubles at home. I sat in solitude for many days and cried. I know crying won't help. I need to find a solution and deal with this problem.
While doing business, I got acquainted with some people. I tell them I will bring your paper. You will pay me first. I will bring your paper at the end of the day. If I can't give the paper, I will give you the money for that day. Thus in every district I go around the old paper shops every day and look for the old paper and buy it. Earlier I could have matched Direc. Now I have to pay the local trader. In this way I spend a lot of time and my business capital gradually increases. Again I started giving old paper to the papermill. Now I don鈥檛 trade in old paper. But at that time, my challenging time was the challenge of putting rice in my mouth at once. I had no money. Even then I didn鈥檛 let my family understand to eat rice at once. I'm not eating myself. I have arranged for them to eat.
I had to overcome all obstacles. I had to think all the time. How will I survive? How do I make a living? Will life go on? I was totally ignorant about the business yet I turned around with my family. I have dealt with all adversity.
By the grace of God, I am now well off. Now I have no problem. Now I do other business myself. I am very happy spending my day very happily. You will pray for me.
Friends, if you like my post, please comment. Your comments are very valuable to me. I will be inspired to write the next post for your comments.