Hi, Ladies of Hive all of us must be had been through a lot of events that made us feel that our lives ended things that led us into black holes things that made us lose passion, hope, and the tempt to rescue.
After a while, we remember those things backward and see how we overreact back then which makes us realize with time we became more reasonable and learn how to deal with such things.
Nothing has changed except time that taught us that the only thing we need was time time to absorb the situations or to figure out what we need or what will do.
The reason for most things that effected us is the wrong choice with our relationships in all of their kinds (friends, lovers, marriage, etc...) there are relations meant to be ended especially it always there's someone who gave everything and makes sacrifices and gets nothing in return Although we should never attempt to wait for payback.
We should lower our expectations to make things easier for us.
Anyway that time we need to heal we must learn how we make it useful despite how much pain we feel in that way we don't waste any time.
For example, we can resume anything we paused before if there is not we can learn new things, new language, hand made or even watch tv shows we should do anything to keep us away from overthinking or blaming ourselves for things that are already ended.
Always we should live everything we face in life every pain every heartbreak to be stronger so then we can pass the grief stage and leave it behind that moment we can feel free again and ready to continue.
After all that, if we kill time with something useful or with nothing the important thing is that we restore our passion in life, our beliefs, and hope.
I hope you benefit from this share and enjoy reading.
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