Respected owner of the Weekend Experiences community, @galenkp always takes out some such topics from his magic box, about which everyone thinks, but they never come to their mind in the form of questions like this. like this time they asked us
"Tell me one thing about human nature that you like and one that you don't."
In this regard I have to say that the human mind is a very complex machine made by God and the biggest thing is that it keeps changing its likes and dislikes occasionally. It is unnecessary that if a person likes or dislikes something, he will always like or dislike it.
Because when a person is very young, his thinking is chaotic, he does not understand whether everything is good or bad, but when he grows up in age, he starts to understand what is good for him. And what's worse.
I also don't quite like some things about human nature in my life, one of them I particularly don't like is anyone talking about their own shortcomings behind another person's back.
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Because if there is truth in his words, then he should have the courage to tell those shortcomings in front of that person or anyone else. Because by gossiping about someone, such people only do the work of character assassination and sometimes due to this type of character assassination or gossip, there is a lot of turmoil in the personal life of that person.
And that person had to work very hard to control the damage of this upheaval. And sometimes it has a very bad effect on the social status of that person.
And sometimes disintegration of that person's family also starts. That's why I strongly dislike the nature of all those people, be it women or men, who discuss the personal matters of others without knowing whether they are right or wrong.
Another aspect of human nature that I like very much is that when a person, despite knowing many of the demerits of someone, does not make them feel that he is aware of those shortcomings while meeting him.
And talks to him as if he is meeting that person for the first time, and has no idea about him. Actually, such people are very sensible, worldly and important, because they know that every person has both qualities and demerits.
And it is also not necessary that if someone misbehaves with one person, he will also misbehave with another person. He may have misbehaved with someone in some emotional outburst, and at that time both the parties were at fault.
That's why I don't like the nature of people who are prejudiced or judgmental about someone's character. And that's why I like the nature of people who care completely about other people's feelings. And never make any preconceived notions about them.