That man once gave you a very good advice Aleksander. Even though you didn’t understand at first, you grew to understand it in time. I was once like you, I couldn’t say no, but when the hard time come and they do, you realise that there is only one person that will accompany you throughout all those ‘bad’ times and that is yourself. Being loving and compassionate towards yourself is a must in this life. I’m happy that you got there 💙