Hace unos días estuve compartiendo con mi tía y me comentaba que no le gusta la pareja de mi prima y porai terminamos algo molestas porque ella no acepta que su hija ya es una mujer de 22 años Ser terca es lo opuesto a la aceptación. No es lo mismo, admitir que aceptar es una situación consciente y la aceptación es algo consciente como inconscientemente.
Se vale platicar, discutir un tema con una persona, con un familiar o amigo. Lo que no se vale es discutir con un terco. es mejor ser ignorante que terco, porque el ignorante con voluntad aprende cualquier casa, pero un terco por solo tener la razón miente.
A few days ago I was sharing with my aunt and she was telling me that she doesn't like my cousin's partner and we ended up a little upset because she doesn't accept that her daughter is already a 22 year old woman Being stubborn is the opposite of acceptance It's not the same, admitting that accepting is a conscious situation and acceptance is both a conscious and unconscious thing.It is okay to talk, to discuss an issue with a person, with a family member or friend.It is better to be ignorant than stubborn, because the ignorant with will learn any house, but a stubborn just to be right lies.
tratar con personas así es como chocar con un enorme muro, no entienden y ni siquiera es tan dispuesto a entender nada. una persona terca es totalmente opuesta a la aceptación, por más que le intentamos explicar de la mejor forma, no lo va a entender. por qué los seres humanos tendemos a llenarnos de miedos por estar más dispuesto a rechazar, a ser rebeldes en todo, queriendo siempre tener la razón en acontecimientos dolorosos como la muerte de ser querido cómo aceptar la separación en una relación pareja aceptar que los hijos ya son grandes y tenemos si o si respetar sus decisiones aceptar que somos adictos a cosas que nos hacen daño
dealing with people like this is like hitting a huge wall, they do not understand and are not even willing to understand anything.a stubborn person is totally opposed to acceptance, no matter how hard we try to explain it to them, they are not going to understand.why we human beings tend to fill ourselves with fears for being more willing to reject, to be rebellious in everything, always wanting to be right in painful events such as the death of a loved one how to accept the separation in a couple relationship accept that children are grown up and we have to respect their decisions accept that we are addicted to things that hurt us
Esa terquedad ante lo que es obvio y evidentemente no nos va a llevar a nada. por ejemplo, es como aquella persona que. No acepta que su pareja ya no lo ama y se agobia buscando un motivo y no acepta la separación, no acepta que la relación se enfrió y el amor apagó y busca un porqué si yo le daba todo, si yo le hacía todo, si yo lo cuidaba y no lo acepta y mendiga y busca una y otra vez y la otra persona más la rechaza porque no acepta que ya no quiere nada con el o ella.
That stubbornness in the face of what is obvious and evidently will not lead us to anything, for example, it is like that person who.Does not accept that his or her partner does not love him or her anymore and gets overwhelmed looking for a reason and does not accept the separation, does not accept that the relationship went cold and the love went out and looks for a reason if I gave him or her everything, if I did everything, if I took care of him or her and does not accept it and begs and looks again and again and the other person rejects him or her because he or she does not accept that he or she does not want anything with him or her anymore.
mi tia quiere que su hija deje a su pareja, me dijo no quiero que se vaya con el porque es un mal tipo.y yo le dije si, tia, a lo mejor tiene razon, tu lo sabes, yo lo se y ahora tiene que saberlo.pero va a sufrir a lo mejor y le va a doler mucho y sera lo que tendra que pasar para que su hija se de cuenta de cual es su verdadera cara. pero por que no me puedo involucrar si es mi hija, es muy terca.pero por que no puedo involucrarme si es mi hija, es muy terca.le conteste: tu tambien tia eres muy terca.se que quieres lo mejor para mi prima, pero ese es el hombre que le gusta, el que eligio ella ya es adulta y hay que respetar su decision de eso se trata la vida, tropezar, caer y levantarse.todo es un ciclo que se repite, mientras mas te opongas ella mas se apegara a el.
my aunt wants her daughter to leave her partner, i don't want her to go with him because he is a bad guy.and i told her yes, aunt, maybe she is right, you know that, i know thatand now she needs to knowit.but she is going to suffer maybe and it will hurt her a lot and it will be what will have to happen for your daughter to realize what her real faceis. but why can't i get involved if she is my daughter, she is very stubborn.but why can't i get involved if she is my daughter, she is very stubborn.i answered her: you too, aunt, are very stubborn.i knowyou want the best for my cousin, but that is the man she likes, the one she chose she is already an adult and we have to respect her decision that is what life is all about, stumbling, falling and getting up.everything is a cycle that repeats itself, the more you oppose it, the more she will stick to it.
Cuando un ser querido deja este mundo sufrimos mucho y tendemos a culpar a alguien, a un familiar que no colaboró con sus cuidados, a un médico que no actuó con rapidez o en un accidente siempre culpamos al otro conductor y nunca aceptamos que era su hora de partir y es triste lo sé, pero no podemos hacer otra cosa que aceptar su partida.
When a loved one leaves this world we suffer a lot and we tend to blame someone, a relative who did not collaborate with their care, a doctor who did not act quickly or an accident always blaming the other driver and we never accept that it was their time to leave and it is sad I know, but we can do nothing but accept their departure.
No podemos cambiar la decisión de las personas por mucho que las queramos, porque eso no está en nuestras manos. Somos tercos por naturaleza, unos más que otros. una vez dejó de ser infiel y volvimos con él aunque nos tratara con insultos, vejaciones, humillaciones. Yo lo cambio, solemos decir, pero es más fácil alimentar ilusiones que aceptar realidades.
We cannot change people's decision no matter how much we love them, because that is not in our hands We are stubborn by nature, some more than others.once he stopped being unfaithful and we went back to him even though he treated us with insults, humiliations, humiliations.I change him, we usually say, but it is easier to feed illusions than to accept realities.
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