We need to just focus on the situations that we can control instead of bothering about the ones which we cannot control.
The more we focus too much on what we cannot control the more frustrated we will get if it is not yielding positive results.
Focusing on those things which you are able to do make you to be able to solve the problems instead of you worrying your mind too much on the ones that you have no control over..
Please stop focusing on the past , just focus on your present and do not be too bothered about a future which you cannot certainly predict for now...bothering yourself over an uncertain future will only wreck your present because you will be too distracted already.
Do not bother yourself too much about how the future will be for you , just believe that the future will be great and you can even make the future great by focusing on the present and making it get better as time goes by.
It is important that you should also participate in self-care because a great self-care will enable you to be able to manage your mental and physical health, it will help you to be able to successfully manage your anxiety levels and also your stress levels too , self-care is really necessary for you.
When also practicing self-care , you should make sure that you do the activities which you really enjoy and those activities which help you relax.
Now let's about the things what triggers your confidence and happiness..
You have to search within yourself to know those things which gives you happiness and confidence , then you should keep doing them to make your happiness and confidence to become consistent..
Your consistent happiness and confidence will give you a better way to handle pressure and uncertainties in life..
When you know that there will be uncertainties in life , it will make you to be able to prepare yourself mentally for it and you will be able to cope with it successfully without it disturbing your success in life.
The only certain way to live in a life of uncertainty is that you should not allow yourself to be too distracted with various unexpected events and situations which might come up during the course of our life , just stay relaxed and be optimistic that things will only keep getting better for you and that the future will be bright no matter how rough today will be.
Infact when life is too predictable, it will make the life to become less interesting, so the uncertainty in life is also part of what makes life mysterious and also interesting too.
So I personally do approach uncertainties in life as one of those things which I need to confront consistently if I care about my life and if I want to be very great in whatever I am doing..it makes it possible for me to be fully dedicated to my intentions towards my life and my goals.