I have a massive problem with this, though I too am aware of the secret power of language. I call it the war of the words, the subtle ways we influence one another's beliefs and therefore perceptions and ultimately experience and enjoyment of life. And we do it all in a too often semiconscious battle with our tongues and our fingers - a battle that is essentially for the power to define the truth. The knowledge of this and that I should then speak appropriately does not seem to have helped me control my tongue as much as it has you, however. So well done, brother. You're stronger than I.