Sometimes I seems to misunderstood what is happiness and what laughter means, because most people tends to think when someone laugh, the person is happy, yet that isn't true because a true definition of happiness isn't defining by smiling.
We can laugh in so many places and events when we finds them fun to us but happiness comes from what we encounter which lasted a longer time. In a nutshell, I can say that, happiness is something that last long but we smile when a particular thing amazed us for a moment.
I had an experience like this before, I was smiling to the funny statement my friend made, this friend of mine is someone who can crack the best jokes and you are going to laugh by all means, it was in an occasion and we were all wearing a new attire's which means, all of us were looking so admirable.
As my friend continue to entertain us with his funny statements, I was smiling here and there, then a time came that I need to ease myself, I got up and went straight to the nearby bush and ease myself, there, i saw this two girls coming towards the event venue, she was telling her friend I was happy because of my attire's.
From the look of things, she admits that my attire's was stunning and so, she attest to the fact that it looks good on me, but she doesn't know the all corners laughter wasn't because of the attire's and deep down inside of me I was still having my worries, originated from the thing's i want to solve which I could not yet paved the way for it, but because, in the place I sat with friends, we have a comedian who took it upon himself to make us smiling and not to ever feel bored or think too much of our worries, that was why I smiled.
To be frank, it is good to be fun sometimes, rather than for a person to be tightened it face all the times because even what you are seeking for will come when the time for us is there.
People keep their worries inside and if they come across something that warrant them to laugh, you would see the smile's coming all over their faces, for a longer time, I keep trying the best I can to keep myself happy.
Before I used to be sad when I think of those things I can't do, but now, I learnt a lot about life, which is to be easy going and cheer on myself always to achieve my biggest target.
starting small isn't just a waste of time but it is accepting that you are going to get to where you want to be and that you have accepted your responsibility of becoming the best part of yourself.
