Have you ever want to watch movie alone, eat alone or maybe just want to be alone for a moment? I believe you do 😊. This is just something that in my opinion what we need in a certain time of your life/day/ hours/ minute or even a second. There is no experts here but lets just discuss briefly about why do people do or need this (only going to talk about what i know and what I’ve experienced or observed).
Yes we do have a a lot of friends out there. We enjoy, socialize and work together with them, but what i really want to emphasise here is how much can we handle? For example, after a busy long weekend involve with the community i know for sure at the end of the day it will bring us to the point where you be thinking “wow, i really need some rest”. Rest from thinking to much of problems, rest from works, rest from the crowdedness of the city and rest from all the things that can waste our energy. Resting alone is indeed very important because this can atleast recharge us to be happy and more fresh when rejoining the community.
What I mean by reconstruction is the construction of a life planning. when we are alone, we will often be able to think more clearly (at least in my case). spaciousness and comfort can be one of the reasons why we can think wisely and more organised.
You just want to spend your time with you. Doing things that you like with no worries about what others like or dislike. Managing your own time for example you can decide what time you want to go or come home. Walking around wasting time or maybe flirt a little ( if you skillfull enough without your wing man 😎).
There is no excuse needed when you want to be alone. I know that some people may judge but if its negative why do we have to care right. Just take the positive. Live the life you love and take care of others feeling while you at it because, you’ll never know when you will need them the most.
