Most times it get ugly before it gets beautiful. Meet Debra; if you'd asked her, she would say her name is Precious.
Today's her birthday, January 10 yet it makes no difference being her 31st birthday although she had gotten everything she asks of life but wait a minute, not everything because she's still single.
"Life's what I make it" her theme creed. She strode towards her bed, cocked her dildo deep into herself moaning as her other hand explored her chests.
Trust me, after she's done; she would sob about it. Smoke tobacco, masturbate again in her jacuzzi then shower on her lingerie and pass out.
If there's one truth she loves about herself is the fact that the best thing goes with her routine. She wakes everyday feeling special about it and whether or not she goes out, Debra will always wear fancy lingerie, dress her bed with nice sheets and send any random person that crosses her mind some cash.
People loves her for being generous, many appreciates her kindness yet every man who crossed her way did the opposite. They either cheat with her or on her and embezzle her funds.
This continues on and on leaving her on a black mode. She keeps asking why life is so unfair to her, why her of all people yet she fails to understand that she has been the problem all along.
She keeps going after relationships thinking that only a man would complete her. What a mess because it's quite unfortunate that with all the money and fame she's got, she still lacks inner peace.
Look here, concerning the "You complete me" part. No one can ever complete you because you're not you plus the other person rather you're just you and the other person.
Debra fails to understand that when it comes to love and relationships, it compliments a mirror because no one will love you until you love yourself.
She gives people yet live to starve herself of the truth that her life outside where she wears perfection is only a camouflage because even in her relationships; she reflected pride and ego which makes men resent her.
Her defense mechanisms and always fighting emotional vulnerabilities had kept her this way, lonely and depressed left for suicide or something.
There are many Debra's out there, fading and giving up on life because even their good don't pay. Please let's reach out to them, let's open their eyes and make them understand that finding true love is simple and real but first they must come at peace with themselves.
They must love themselves knowing that the only way to love yourself is by accepting who you are and what you're called to do.
Let us raise a voice that will open their eyes to stop looking for others to love them rather love themselves first in order to attract true love.
Let's teach them to quit waiting for someone who will fix them instead make everyday count by loving themselves which inherently means: doing what makes them find a meaning in life, cultivating habits that improve their self esteem and face everyday with one intent(becoming the best version of themselves).
Let's make the world a better place by spreading hope, motivating words and genuine love. Please share if you find this worthy, thanks.
