I debate them all the time in a few anarchist groups.
How to recognize them?
They start with imposing their authority on what not imposing authority is.
They make this distinction between "private" and "personal" property.
The difference is that "personal" is what they have and "private" is what they want to steal.
I can destroy their argument in one sentence now, but they still choose to stay delusional.
The problem is that the less you know, the more useless you are. The less skills you have, the more you blame others for not recognizing your skills etc. If you ask a dumb person if they are dumb they will reply "you are dumb".
I am a big fan of Chomsky, but... he does not know he is criticizing statism, not free trade, which is all capitalism is.
The problem with any system is cronyism. Capitalism is not really any system. But Socialism, that is the only way that could lead to the utopia of Communism, is the totalitarian, 100% of control of the state over life of an individual.
I choose my personal freedom to decide, over other people deciding for me.
I always give them what I want as an individual and ask them how will they convince me it is not what I want:
I am an individual. I want every interaction to be voluntary. I want to create stuff for myself and others. I want to be rewarded according to how my time is useful to others. My life is mine. I own myself. What I create is extension of me. My time is my currency. I can exchange it or keep it. It is my capital. I do not believe in imposed authority.
This is what I want. It is the best for me. I don't care what the collective wants me to do. I choose to interact if I wish. I am the owner of me.
Please prove me wrong, what is better and why.
Make me change my mind without force/imposing you authority/initiating violent aggression towards a peaceful person who does not harm anyone.
How will you impose your authority on me to stop me from trading or keeping my creation and stay delusional about being an anarchist?
And ALWAYS, when they run out of their very weak argument, they just say I'm not an anarchist and "beliebers will belieb" like 
Yes, I do believe in my personal freedom vs. mob rule. I do believe that as an anarchist I choose the authority I want.
By all logic, there cannot be any other freedom and I believe in freedom.
So they start with imposing their authority on what "no rulers" is... because they chose the authority of Bakunin etc. and I have not... how is this anarchy, if someone chooses the authority for you?
They are just not capable of recognizing their limitations, therefore cannot raise above them. This is how they fail to learn and this is why they are not appreciated by the society... as they have no useful skills.
And as each dumb person, they think they are better than others. Superior morals, intelligence... more awake, spiritual, enlightened... and they spin in their ego-loops... ego-pseudo-spirituality.
So they want to fix everyone, because they fail to fix themselves.
It is a kind of a mix of ignorance, arrogance, stupidity, bigotry, resentfulness... and just total lack of knowledge of anything really.
They really think that because you cannot trust an individual to be free to choose what to do, we need to give the power over our lives to other individuals, who ganged up in a mob. How is this any different from what we have today?
Just much worse, because free trade, even while oppressed by their ideology, managed to create so much. Reduced poverty in half just in 8 years 2004-2012.
They fail to recognize that any change can only be done on individual level. When it is multiplied by more individuals, paradigm shifts itself.
I usually add this:
Do you think I should be free to exchange what I create, value and support people who are useful to me, negotiate my value based on how useful my skills are to others and should helping others be voluntary?
If you do not, you are imposing your rule over me and you are not an anarchist, but a violent aggressor.
Here is my reply to one of them this morning:
Do you think someone calling voluntsryists rapists should do the learning first? "Anarchy" means "no rulers". nothing less, nothing more.
If someone says it is something else, they are already imposing their authority I do not recognize.
I can trade and own my time, which is my capital and still not believe in imposed authority.
If an AnCom says I cannot, they impose authority.
I do not impose authority when I homestead.
What I created is my property and I have the right to defend it from thieves.
It is defense not imposing authority. I can share, but voluntarily, not through imposed authority, which in not anarchy.
Communism is not anarchy. You cannot be the ideology based on total control of your life by others, which is an imposed authority and be an anarchist at the same time.
Only freedom of each individual can work with "no rulers". only Voluntaryism is anarchy.
Just because some retards were dumb enough to make a mistake long ago, it doesn't mean we should not learn.
AnCom is an oxymoron of delusional, emotionally retarded children who need to catch up 200 years of human knowledge.
They are free to fuck off and live tribal life until they become resentful of successful communities and want to attack them. Thieves should extinct. They will slaughter themselves or they should be taken care of with real compassion by healthy people.
Make a list of achievements of AnComs... there is just one: death.
The list for free market starts with this device, internet they use, FB and reducing poverty by half; 4billion people suffer less in just 8 years from 2004-2012. Singapore and Hong Kong became most advanced places on Earth in few decades from fishing villages. US became the richest country in the world... and then socialism destroyed it. Fuck their delusion. Facts do not care about it. AnCom is the dumbest idea... right next to gender.
Here is one from yesterday... and just as usual, they run away, have nothing to defend their idea with, but still choose to stay in their cult and say I'm a "belieber".
Yes, I do believe in logic. Sorry to disappoint you.
And they ride off on the same "superior morality" high horse, they rode in... ubermench I guess :D
If not freedom to own what you created that did not exist, then what freedom?
if not freedom to control and trade what you make, then what freedom?
if not the freedom to be the owner of you labor, then what freedom?
if not freedom to value and support people who create things you need, then what freedom?
if not freedom to negotiate the value of my skills, then what freedom?
if not freedom to value things you value, then what freedom?
the mob rule? the gang-rapers deciding about my life? and how exactly will you impose your authority to rule over me and still be delusional you are an anarchist?
how about we vote to burn you alive because we are cold?
let's take away your stuff, take a shit in your living room and eat you... because you and the ground you built on are community property.
I could go on forever... they cannot go past "I don't even have the skill of addressing your argument".
So the question I guess should be not who is or isn't an anarchist, but who as a free individual can defend their ideology and who cannot and instead wants to impose their authority on others.
Who cannot defend their ideas from simple scrutiny of logic and stubbornly decides to uphold it anyway and why should anyone appreciate people like that?
Straight from the horse's mouth:
I believe that every interaction between humans should be voluntary. I want for each individual to be the only controller of their lives and their property.
I am an individual. I want to create stuff for myself and others. I want to be rewarded according to how my time is useful to others. My life is mine. I own myself. What I create is extension of me. My time is my currency. I can exchange it or keep it. It is my capital. I do not believe in imposed authority.
Labels that fit to my individual choices make me an anarchist, a capitalist, a voluntaryist, but most of all, I AM AN INDIVIDUAL, who does not judge your value by the status you achieved in an imposed, imaginary collective. No matter who you are; if you respect others, respect me, I will always respect you.
I know I am the only owner of my life, my time, my capital.
This is what I want. It is the best for me. I don't care what the collective wants me to do. I choose to interact if I wish. I am the owner of me.
I do not want to harm others in ANY way.
Please do not impose your rule on me.
Tread on me or others and I will will feel morally obligated to stop you.
PEACE AND LOVE IN ANARCHY
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