When you brought up the point about your cousins needing someone to tell them what to do, I immediately thought of the same kind of people during Covid times, they all went crazy! Suddenly there was no boss standing in front of them telling what to do and what time to do it, but most shockingly, they didn’t know how to direct themselves on spare time either. No gym with a buddy, no soccer practise, nobody calling them that hey lets have coffee on Tuesday at 5pm. I was in utter shock when I saw people all over asking what the hell are they supposed to do now that ”everything is shut down and you can’t see anyone”, like they don’t even have a mind of their own and zero interests if someone isn’t telling them exactly what to do.

Glad we are not those kind of people, the problem is almost opposite because there is an infinate number of interesting things to do and learn!