One of the things I have learned recently is that patterns are hard to break.
So if you've noticed a certain pattern in your life or in someone else's life, whether in behaviour, actions, character, perception about situations, mindset, orientation, etc, that tend to have a wrong rub off or falls short of certain agreed or expected standards, pay very close attention to it and HANDLE IT!
For example, it could be you or someone you know always being hasty or impatient and running into wrong conclusions and decisions every time, or having the quick tendency to flare up and become abusive or disrespectful, or exhibiting some level of weakness sexually, or the inability to save, plan, or invest right, or making bad choices in friends or in life, or always being at the wrong place where and when something goes wrong, or always unprepared when opportunity shows up, or always cutting corners or lowering standards for people, or being perpetually late, or not respecting or fulfilling promises, etc.
If you keep ignoring or dismissing it, it will become a cycle that you'd have an issue breaking from.
Don't pass it off as something normal, light, or unimportant, HANDLE IT!
Ask questions, Seek the right counsel, Pray, Decide, Be intentional, HANDLE IT!
If not, you could find yourself making and repeating mistakes without you recognizing the root cause for why it always happens.
And just like the song goes; the devil learns from your mistakes, even if you don't, and that's how he keeps you in Cycles! So Be Wise!
Handle it.
