Hello everyone,
How are you doing today, trust you had a wonderful day, let me welcome you to my blog once again and to the first edition for this week's contest.
When we talk about relationships it simply means two or more people coming together to share ideas, support and feelings. And the main purpose for a relationship is to get someone you're compatible with. Together you both make it out of life to achieve your desired goals. Relationships sometimes make us know ourselves better and get to know other people better so I will say it's an opportunity where we get to know ourselves better.
Something we see ourselves doing for the people we love than even ourselves that how we get to know we love this person. In a relationship we learn how to love and to be loved, yes many of us don't know how to love but in the case of being in a relationship with someone you get to know the basic things to do to keep the relationship.
Relationships were designed to connect people to bring love, peace, happiness in comfort. I haven't been in a toxic relationship before but as long as I'm in the world I've seen people who have lived in a toxic relationship so I can share my perspective about toxic relationships from there.
A distant cousin of mine was in a toxic relationship with a guy she fell in love with she was way too older than the guy but she loved and cherished this guy you know there's this one thing about people I say ladies in your age he feel the society is talking too much about their personal life they feel bad about themselves and at some point pressure from family parents friends that will lead them to being desperate so they will try as much as possible to keep a man she fell in love with this guy she was way too older than the guy she had money was living well she had a house car and unfortunately the one in love with the wrong person she provided everything for this guy they had to get married and her money was at stake for the marriage her parents were happy that finally their daughter has gotten married she is the breadwinner of the family but yet this guy maltreated because she was advanced in age.
A woman bought a car her husband but yet the man will use the car and Carry ladies for that women and lavish our money can travel for weeks and will lie to the wife that he is traveling to the village and will come to the village with a woman and stay for weeks. This lady lives in pains just because she wants to remain married and to protect her reputation, the husband will always beat her up each time she comes up with the cheating matter, I still remember one night she was pregnant they had a fight till the point the neighborhood heard of it had went in to rescue her, people call on the police but she said they should leave her husband even in the dying state she was, ah I was so surprised that she still care for the husband, when some guys came in and beat the husband up she was crying trying to stop them, that was when I knew that there is power in the word "Love".
She gave birth to the child and this man continue in his act until her family have to come in and stop the marriage because she almost lost her life, one thing am yet to understand is why will she always forgive this man each time he abused her and they will move on, well for me I just know that marriage is not what makes a woman complete so we should not die because of marriage neither should we be abused in a form all in the name of love.
What I learnt is we should not give more to the point we can't pull out, I don't know for other oo but me I don't even know what is love that will make me stand an abuse, I have never been maybe until then I can relate better.
