Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you have to fight for the one you love? I do not think I have myself, but one thing is certain: I can only fight for a person who is worth fighting for. I was listening to "Power Ranger" by Teni, and it struck me - what people do for love. Fighting for love is no new thing, but there are those who can go to extremes; those who can go physical or even kill for the one they love. For me, these things may not be too much for the ones you love, but it must be worth it. Doing things of this nature simply because you do not want to lose the one who claims to be your lover might, for me, be a little bit too much.
Be that as it may, love is a beautiful thing, but one must first ascertain whether they are really in love or not. It might sound absurd, but people can actually think they are in love when they are not. To be in love, in my opinion, is more than just loving and caring for another. True love for me is never one-sided; it must come from both parties. If that is the case, then people can mistakenly believe they are in love when they are not. In this case, one may not experience the beauty of love in its entirety.
I have never physically fought for the one I love; but if that ever happens, I must be convinced that I am loved as much as I love. In other words, I must be assured that the love is true. Many have killed themselves, stripped naked while fighting, killed another, stolen and done many other things that they would naturally not do for the sake of the one they love. While it might be worth it in very few occasions, most instances happen because there was never true love. As a matter of fact, you might never have a reason to steal, kill or engage in a physical fight for the one who truly loves you.
Power Ranger by Teni
"Power Ranger" by Teni is, in some sense is a funky song, but it sparked a powerful thought in my mind today. Teni was ready to do anything to win and keep her man, who was probably flirting with other ladies. For me, it is of no importance; there is never a need to convince a lover not to leave. What is meant for you will always be yours, so you may not have to fight to keep it. I do not exempt the fact that situations might necessitate fighting to keep a good and beautiful relationship, but that is completely different from fighting to keep a partner who does not want to stay. It is only necessary for one to fight for love if the other partner would do the same.
Thank you so much for reading through to the end. In all that you do, make sure to enjoy love to the fullest.
