I've been in my fair share of relationships. While I still like the idea of romance, I realize I was much more of a romantic when I was younger. Over time, I’ve come to believe that we’re drawn to certain people for a reason—sometimes to learn lessons that may seem harsh at first but ultimately serve us in unexpected, positive ways. Our lives have so many seasons. I’ve always enjoyed people...their quirks, their perspectives, and what I can learn from them. But I’ve also realized that meaningful connections don’t always require physical intimacy. Looking back, it’s striking how much we change as individuals, and how rare it is for two people to grow in the same direction. Or at least closely enough to sustain a truly healthy relationship. It’s possible, but I think it’s rare. Too often, couples stay together out of convenience, even when it comes at the expense of their well-being.