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Thank you for these encouraging words and I am of course delighted that you are more the street-orgies type than the other way round. HaHa!

I am convinced that man is a loving and sexually permissive being, if only he would let himself. But it's probably all a question of timing. People who have to work don't like it so much when others are having sex, and so it is probably that we understand and envy those dancing and drumming by the fire so well when they celebrate their lusts and rituals all together, where no one from the village would think of going to work while singing and dancing of all things.

The missing dimension of community that grants one the simultaneity of events is probably one of the reasons why people are reluctant to produce sounds in modern homes.

So here's to the opening of clubs and discos that sought to create this simultaneity in experience for people, I wouldn't have known what to do with myself in the young years of my disco pilgrimage. All other festivities included. Where people are forbidden to celebrate (or even to mourn together), it will take hold in frustration in all the repressed cells and want to emerge all the angrier. Pornography, for example, is mentioned as one such repressed sexual need.

In my view, it is easier for children to notice how adults make love without making a big issue of it. Just like when you don't lock the toilets, but nudity is something normal among the elderly. Every physical need, including burping and farting, which is suppressed in the long term, leads not only to the proverbial stomach ache, but also to emotional distress, because one is denying oneself love.

I'm so glad some of the passages made you tear up with laughter! I was so hoping this would happen!

In western culture it's treated as such a secretive tabooish , not to be spoken of thing that doesn't exist if no one brings it up... haha, it causes many people to try to be quiet and have wimpy uncomfortable sounding sex that leaves others feeling uncomfortable and sorry for those sad squeeching souls.

Yah, you also prefer it to be real, :D
What is perceived as unpleasant in oneself through the sounds of other people having sex is of course not something that the others may be blamed for. People confuse cause and effect. For example, their annoyance with the smacking and slurping at the table does not come from the smackers and slurpers, but from themselves. By forbidding oneself to smack, slurp and enjoy loudly, and the feeling of dislike that is immediately due as a result arises (towards oneself), one wants to somehow get rid of this dislike, but confuses the groaner, sigher and smacker with the cause of this discomfort.

While the smacker (burper, farter etc.) , who otherwise also forbids himself several other liberties, may have just saved one bit of permissiveness for himself. That's why people become really angry when you want to take away that last resort of bodily expression from them. LOL

Thank you so much for adding here to the LOVE-atmosphere! :)

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