Many people would consider that a problem, but it is what it is.

Thank you, I find this is a great insight. Conflict has in my eyes potential in many directions. It can be used for hardening the fronts, it can be used to communicate on a different level, it can be seen as an asset, very particular for us humans.

Maybe you remember a quote from Starwars where Darth Vader denies the very fact of having a conflict.

"There is no 'conflict'!" - Darth Vader to Luke Skywalker (Episode VI - Return of the Jedi, Chapter 39)

While it's obvious, that there is, for us viewers :)