Thank you. I try, sometimes I succeed, sometimes not. I distinguish between judging and giving critical feedback, though. In fact, I am a really critical person. LOL. Constructive critique I do welcome, while judging is something someone projects onto me, for an issue one probably has with "the world" but mistakes "the world/the people" with me (or, vice versa). I am of the notion that what people distaste in others, they mostly do reject in themselves. Including myself here ;-)

My man certainly would not describe me as a people pleaser. But that's why we love each other and appreciate our little clashes, they give the spice.