engage verb (INTEREST)
to interest someone in something and keep them thinking about it:
"If a book doesn't engage my interest in the first few pages, I don't usually continue reading it."
ENGAGE
to become involved, or have contact, with someone or something: we need to let go of everything that isn't us: our expectations, interests, beliefs, etc.
We need to water our relationships like they matter. We need to believe in ourselves & everyone else around us, we need encouragement - not critique