Hi every one... Good day to you all. As many well know that if am not on to music and with a mic then the next thing I love to do is to be inspirational and motivational that is why I bring to you this wonderful write up and I called this one the fear of failure.
Most of us most have heard about ATYCHIPHOBIA. Well if not am here to enlighten us a bit and redirect our thoughts and focus.
Some one once sad if you have not tried some thing new in life then you are not worth living...
But here is the problem with us and it is FEAR... not just any fear but the fear of FAILURE. because we don't want to fail we end up not trying to do some thing at all but here is the truth I have learnt..
*** You can't be sure you will fail or succeed in life if you don't try some thing new...
*** You tried some thing new and failed does not make you a failure....
**** You are a total failure when you fail and then refuse to try again...
*** A broken wings does not mean you can never see the sky again...
*** You want to fly high, then look for greater heights....
The fear of failure could be seen from two side
- POSITIVE SIDE
- NEGATIVE SIDE
now I know so many will say how could fear of failure be a positive coin well listen well
When one has a fear to fail (atychiphobia) it forces that person to put all effort to succeed and not to be seen as a failure. You can see that all hands will be put on deck, all effort possibly made are been taken all to attain success and escape failure.
But now to the negative side the fear of failure could be very backsliding in life and can not promote growth and success. this is made possible because one who's has ATYCHIPHOBIA will not be pushed to try some thing new, there will not be the burning fire to take on a new project. Imagine if @NED had fear of failure there would not be steemit to day. What if the boss 
HOW TO OVER COME FEAR OF FAILURE
ANALYSING ALL POTENTIAL OUTCOME
To over come ATYCHIPHOBIA one should first of all look at every possibility of attaining success in the intended project.
BE POSITIVE
the major cause of ATYCHIPHOBIA is a negative mind set. You hear things like ...what if it does not work out... What if I run out of funds... What if the market economy changes soon.. All these are from a heart with fear already.... We should be positive to over come the fear of failure. We should say thing like... If this works I will be a legend... If it hits I will be a star... And been positive will go a long way to helping us over come fear of failure.
HAVE A CONTINGENCY PLAN
if one has the fear of failure then to over come that, one should have a plan A, B, C even to Z if possible.
I hope we will begin to do new things and take up new projects with out fear....
Yours lovely Emmy...