Every lie a person said has a consequence and the moment a person was caught lying, other people will become very suspicious about him or her. Lies when caught can destroy a friendship or relationships. You will be guilty, full of shamed when you are caught lying, and people will distant themselves from you because of your lying attitude. Your respect and self worth will not longer be seen and recognized among people if you are a perpetual liar.
People trust on you can be broken when they found out you lied about some certain things and it can end a partnership between you and other people. Your reputation can be damaged or harm when you caught lying regularly because nobody will believe you in whatever you say anymore. Even in your place of work be honest and truthful because if you lied and you got caught, you could lose your job or face disciplinary authority. At times lies might look harmless or well-intentional but let me tell you it has an effect if you get caught.
Do you know keeping a lie going for a very long time could be stressful? Oh yeah, it could be stressful. Just one lie could leads to many more lies just to maintain and safeguard the original truth. Therefore, one needs more lies to cover up the truth and is not an easy thing to do.
One lady told me she has been lying to her fiancee of 4 years of relationship for over two months about her pregnancy which she said he is the man responsible considering they have known each other for about 4 years of being in relationship and is not truth but she never open up the truth to him. Already she told the other man, who is the second boyfriend that's responsible for the pregnancy but the man asked her to abort the pregnancy that he's not ready to father any child at the moment.
Until recently the fiancee she pined the pregnancy on him found out through her phone messages and Wasap chatting. The lady gave him her phone to charge it and she went to the market. Being her boyfriend he knows her phone password and somehow login into her Wasap and accidentally read all the messages about the other man asking her to abort the pregnancy because he's not interested.
He was so pained and angry that this lady could lied to him all this while, for about two months and making him taking the responsibility of another's man child. When the lady came back he confronted her and she has no choice than to admit the truth. And that lead to the man ending the relationship and everything they had before. You see how she lied and was caught and that led to end of her 4 years relationship.
Lie is destructive, you may lied and escaped it today, but when you have been caught it destroyed a lot of things you could never imagined.
Some lies can lead to temporary victory, but it doesn't last at all.
Once you are caught lying, other people will become so cautious about you and whatever you said to them and in the community can never be trusted even if is true. For everything has it rewards or consequences, so does a lie has it consequences.
Please, let learn to be sincere and truthful to each other. Is better to tell someone the truth even if it will hurt the person than to lied and make the person happy for some moments. Because eventually someday you will get caught and when you are caught lying or lied, then regrets is inevitable.
