If you don't rightly define who you are to people, people will wrongly define who you are not. They will spread the rumour, broadcast the negative about you.
When it comes to you only your definition matter, other people's definitions are just opinion which don't really count.
You are to portray the image you want people to see about you, don't let them describe you base on their own perspective.
I am emmakwisequote, my pen don't write, it only bleed my heart on paper.....