I have come to realize that the world we live in can only be better when we have supportive and helping hands to grow and this help comes in various aspect that it can be needed individually or can be rendered among people. It is good to help people especially when it comes from your heart in assisting but not every humans on earth thinks the same.
It have been also known to me that what goes around comes around which is also a part of life experience i have witness that have shown me the positive side that what you sow is definitely what you will reap. I am the kind of person that like helping others in my little way because i have this humans feelings of redering help to people who comes to me especially if am in that position to help at that time.
The mindset of showcasing the habit of giving is a personal choice because not everyone thinks the same or believes that people in need are really in need and the reason is that many people have take advantage of this opportunity by lying in other to collect money from others. This pisses people off as they regret to help since it is well known to them that it is all format.
Whereas we have people who just want to help to put smile on other people's face without minding if the help needed is genuinely or not. We humans are different with how we see things and also reason as well which now triggers the mindset to either help others or not.
I have a friend back then in school who was struggling financially to meet up expenses needed in school and this have always affected this my friend that he almost dropout from school. We were roommate back then in school, so i I could understand the situation he was going through. There was no much difference between our two because even myself i have no one to send me money but the advantage i have back then was that i work in a bar during evening hours and then go to classes in the morning and afternoon.
it wasnt easy for me to balance the two but i had no choice than to put effort because there was no one to help me do that. I noticed my friend havent paid his school fees and our exams was quite approaching which he didnt inform me about. He has already given up that he will drop out since there is no money to pay the school fees. I had to surprise him by borrowing money in my work place which i will use my salary to cover up at the end of the month.
He was so happy and surprised that i will do such for him which i counted as nothing because i feel happy seeing him happy. Then I use a proverb to explain something to him that when someone has injury in his hands, he is not suppose to put that hands in his pocket and the reason is because people will only think that your making guy with it moreover your feeling pains inside.
The best thing is to let the hands out let people see it so that those who can help or better still render support will know how to assist your situations. Hearing this, he was so excited and thanked me once again.
Presently now my friend his doing well at his place of work and at the moment i am trying to gain my grounds back as things are becoming more challenging for me. I lost my mum some months back and her burial expenses have been an issue on my neck due to the fact that am the first son. When i lost my mum i reached out to this my friend about her death, he felt so bad and unhappy hearing the news.
I told him that i needed to travel in other to deposit my mom's body in the mortuary and with no delay he didnt hesitate in assisting me with the transport fare and other expenses. The thing is always make an impact in people's lives because life is too short and no one knows tomorrow.
