今天想分享關於過去求學的心路歷程和想法給正在升學階段的朋友們！ I want to share my personal experience and thoughts on my academic journey in the past with friends who are currently in the process of pursuing further education! ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmUwDtQQsZA6cRz48qcPPYdiHALjFiRrnzo2NQeSehRWPn/img_2930.jpg) Image by StockSnap from Pixabay
升學的這條路上真的不容易，每個人有著不同的目標跟夢想，內心都有心裡所嚮往的未來。但當我們生活在別人眼裡的期望是真的真的很辛苦！一開始可能會因為旁人的話語影響自己原先設定的目標，非讀什麼學校什麼科系不可，不然我的人生就毀了！然而從準備考試到真正考上的過程中會遭受一些挫折甚至需要重考，而考上後其實才是真正的開始！ The path of further education is truly not easy. Everyone has different goals and dreams, and an inner longing for the future. However, it is really difficult to live up to the expectations of others. At the beginning, we may be influenced by the words of others, thinking that we must attend a certain school or major in a certain subject, otherwise our lives will be ruined! However, from preparing for exams to actually taking them, we may encounter setbacks and even need to retake the exams. After we are admitted, that is when the real journey begins! ![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmSQxssbiDBPvsV4RqRb5srqjXQQvM4yr3RQz5ugqYQtn7/img_2931.jpg) Image by Лариса Мозговая from Pixabay
當遇到挫折的時候時常會面臨「自我對話」會開始懷疑自己的決定、會有想休學的念頭、會抱怨是誰誰誰要你一定要讀研究所⋯⋯等當然這情況也不一定只侷限在升學，其實人生中很多時候我們聽不見自己內心的聲音，過程會有很多選擇，但往往我們總是順著他人定義的成功方向！ When facing setbacks, we often engage in "self-talk" and begin to doubt our decisions. We may have thoughts of dropping out, complain about who made us pursue graduate studies, and so on. Of course, this situation is not limited to pursuing further education. In fact, many times in life, we cannot hear our own inner voice. There are many choices in the process, but often we tend to follow the direction of success defined by others! 有時候遇到難題時，不妨放下腳步，聽聽歌，聽聽自己內心渴望的是什麼？我們每個人都擁有權利決定我們的人生想活成什麼樣子！不論考上什麼學校和科系，只要遵循自己的選擇跟決定，成功與否完全取決於你！ Sometimes when facing difficult problems, it might be helpful to take a step back, listen to music, and hear what our inner selves desire. We all have the right to decide how we want to live our lives! Regardless of what school or major we are admitted to, as long as we follow our own choices and decisions, success or failure entirely depends on us!
![](https://images.ecency.com/DQmNrBdPcfdiC1Xmpaiy77277hJCra2t72f7VXQL15yu3tj/img_2932.jpg) Image by Лариса Мозговая from Pixabay