At the beginning of every relationship it is obligatorily necessary to ask God for direction with regard to the couple. A holy courtship, pure and unblemished; a courtship that impels you to grow spiritually and personally, that brings you closer to God rather than away is the true courtship, that is the couple that you will know is for you all under the direction of the Lord. If a couple does not bring you closer to God but takes you away from Him, that relationship is not from God.