Greetings to all my readers, I am glad to be here again to share with you a subject i considered this morning to be very important and as a matter of truth, the subject that must be healed in high esteem as far as parenting and family system is concerned.
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Today i want to sincerely give honor and respect from my heart to every African Woman, who is privilege to be in this community, with all due respect to all the amazing fathers and wonderful mothers in here, the journey in Africa, absolutely have been very different from what is captured in other parts of the world so i celebrate them and to every mother, father , all Grandpa's and grandma's here in the community, i celebrate you for staying true and showing us the right way to follow, it was difficult for me as a young African man but as i opened up my heart to learn, i began to see that anything you set your heart to do is possible.
in my culture as African man, in the past, it was the sole responsibility of a woman, mother to keep the home while the man, father, makes the money, it went so amazingly smooth as at then, except now. this was actually very successful then because mothers were only building capacity on how the home can be made to run smooth, at all cost, there was no carrier development mindset, so fathers, had to concentrate on their focus while the mothers did theirs too.
Every thing went fine but in the present age, fortunately the development curriculum of the African mother has been upgraded in the women world but that of the man has remain the same. I am saying this as a young man who have tested it and have seen the difference, then Fathers were know for paying the bills but fortunately now, every average mother can comfortably settle all her bills with no help from the man. let me quickly strike a balance, now that the mothers are doing virtually all that the fathers were doing in the past, the fathers will also need to start helping the mothers as well in doing the things that they were doing.
this is what i will call a routine tasks that must be done in a home, to make the home/house or a system to effectively function, this is suppose to be a shared responsibility of the mother and the father, you know too well that when it is corporately done, the stress will never be felt but when left for one person to handle will become a Borden and never seen as a blessing.
some time early this year, i came across this, i will love you to take your thought around it, a friend once said that
a house is actually made of walls and you will really need beams to help it stand but that a home is a system that is well structured with love and made beautiful with dreams.
i can recall back then that there was nothing half that i could so treasure to be pleasant as tracing your path home after a few weeks of not being around. Home is where you see how love is beautifully expressed, as a matter of truth love resides in homes, at homes memories are amazing, friends and family will always want to be home, a place were you catch funs in absolute varieties, laughter see's no end.
This is a privilege because the mind and the journey of the next generation, truly begins at home, so when its not well kept, the future see's no light, the systems and structures that are built at home, will become a blessing to the generations yet unborn, if you do not see it as a blessing, then it will become a Borden and as you know when it has become a Borden, you will definitely give up, when that is done, automatically a problem is developed, packaged and sent into the future. many of the issues we are fighting today in families are a product of seeing home keeping as a Borden and not a blessing.
Like i said before, i will truly want to say that home keeping will be effective when i and my wife, will decide to do it together, A few days ago, we were sharing thought amongst friends, then a call came to me from a young friend who is newly married to a young and handsome guy, who has been has been thought to live in the past but he fortunately got married to a girl who's curriculum has been upgraded , as i speak with you, we are still doing our best to make the young man see the need to also upgrade his curriculum so as to meet up with the expectations of the current world, if not done fast, the union is about to break.
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The young beautiful damsel, is already feeling that keeping the home is a Borden because the weight is already too heavy for her to carry, the truth is that when you are yoked with heaviness, you are about to loose your senses, lets come back and make the home a beautiful place, if home keeping is well prioritized and seen as a blessing, then we are all on our way to make the world a beautiful home.
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I will really appreciate if we share our views on this subject, how do you see it and how do you think we should as a matter of truth, look at it, what should be our level of commitment to home keeping and what should we expect in return. please leave your comment on the box as usual, lets engage. i really appreciate your time, for stopping by my blog, I desire that the world will some day become a home for all, thanks for having me 
