Self confidence or self esteem are element that can be easily built over time, if the needed factors are in place, one among many is consistency in actions. Here we will be specifically looking at few things we could engage in to help promote or effectively build self confidence.
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Many a time, questions are asked to be able to handle why some people seems to feel more equal than others, some people see it to be luck . the act of brimming with confidence, happiness, success and the strong sense of love is seen to belong to certain people while other set of persons, not minding how hard they try, it seems not good enough?
The question many do ask is what actually make this so?
Is it money?, Opportunity? , Talent?, Intelligence?, Beauty?, Popularity?, or is it the number of likes, comments, shares and followers on social platforms? , What could this really be?
Over time by experience and observation, people who have a strong sense of love do have a believe that the are worth of the love., this brings us to a mindset thing, "They believe they’re worthy"
“There was only one variable that separated the people who have a strong sense of love and belonging and the people who really struggle for it. And that was, the people who have a strong sense of love and belonging believe they’re worthy of love and belonging. That’s it. They believe they’re worthy… The one thing that keeps us out of connection is our fear that we’re not worthy of connection…”
Brene Brown
At this material point in time i would want to say that confidence or esteem as a subject of concerned is a function of what you do believe, your believe system, is the basis for what ever output you see on the dashboard or the display unit.
Many times in life you will need to make choices and of cause you are the one to decide what you believe and what you don't believe, especially about yourself, (This is important)
You may not have believe this before now, but i must tell you that no one was created valueless including you, everyone is worth the love and the many opportunities just as any other person that you think is more worthy, this is not a fact but a reality that can be proven with time. You may be thinking, its a heavy job to do thereby earning it, no not true, All humans were uniquely designed and each loaded with worth and values.
You may have always seen yourself at an angle of no strength, but believe me, you are stronger than you think you are, yes this is true, Behind every subject of what is team as weakness, lies an unbelievable strength. Every thing you will need to build and improve your life is within you. if you really want to make changes and healing, it all depends on you.
This to some persons maybe very hard to agree with, but like i said this basic truth are very important, helpful and useful, within you lies the power to do all things, if you do not believe this, i totally agree with you because I’ve been there, you can try it even now, and see if it works, am bold to say this because i came out of it, I can also help you in simple and specific steps that will help you reprogram your believe system thereby improving your self-confidence, believe me this will caught across your success in relationships and other facets of life's.
@ekotmordemy, stay safe, we will meet again as we engage in the community